Adoption is a complex subject. There are many areas of adoption some people just do not know how to navigate. One of these areas is transracial adoption, which involves a family adopting a child of a different race. Many are either unfamiliar with the realities of transracial adoption or why it is important to discuss. AFTH is hoping to highlight the voices of those who have experienced transracial adoption through the upcoming Heart-to-Heart event. Before this takes place, though, it is important to briefly go over the ins and outs of transracial adoption.
Over 40% of all adoptions in the U.S. are transracial adoptions. Transracial adoption is also on the rise; it has almost doubled in the past twenty years. The majority of these adoptions involve white parents adopting children of color. It is extremely important for parents adopting children of color to be informed about the realities of transracial adoption before they adopt. The well-being of the child should come first. Being informed is essential.
There are a few popular myths associated with transracial adoption. An important one to address is the myth that race does not matter. Some people may believe the child does not need to be taught about their own race if they are being raised in a different household. The fact is that race does matter and will impact the child’s life in many ways. If a child is raised with no racial identity, they may feel alienated from their family or peers, especially if they are all white. They may also feel disconnected from their own race and confused about their identity. Parents are encouraged to educate their children about their own race and culture so they have a stronger sense of who they are.
Another myth is that approaching the concept of race with a child is taboo and should be avoided. Again, race is a reality the child will have to face eventually. Children raised in transracial households will likely have questions or thoughts about race as they grow up. Parents are better off preparing their children about these concepts as opposed to ignoring them.
Do you want to learn more about the realities faced by transracial adoptees and parents? Attend AFTH’s virtual Heart-to-Heart event on Feb. 22. AFTH also offers support groups for those who have experienced transracial adoption.
