When facing an unplanned pregnancy and suffering from substance addiction, you may experience times when you feel that you have no options or support. Our goal at Adoptions From The Heart is to ensure that all our clients know we are here to help, no matter their situation. While society tends to paint its own depictions of the nature of adoption and substance abuse, we like our clients to know that they will face no judgments from us while deciding what route is best for them. Here are three things to keep in mind as you navigate placing your child for adoption while suffering from substance addiction.
Advocacy
Advocacy can be defined as any action that speaks in favor of others. During this time of significant change, you must have someone in your corner who can advocate for you and your child. These can be family, friends, social workers, or adoption counselors. You may often encounter a healthcare professional who does not understand your situation or is addressing a topic you may not understand. Having someone present who can support and guide you through those interactions can be extremely helpful. AFTH counselors are perfect examples of supportive advocates who will always guide you in the best direction regarding your situation. Still, the truth is that the most influential advocate you’ll ever have is yourself. Never be afraid to use your voice to speak up, ask questions, or address concerns.
Seek Continued Support
Facing an unplanned pregnancy, in general, can be challenging for expecting parents. Going through a placement process can be overwhelming, scary, and exhausting. A major key to expressing your experience is connecting with others and utilizing the resources available. Utilize your adoption counselor even after the adoption is finalized! Keeping those lines of communication open allows you to have a person you can talk to about the triumphs and challenges you may experience. Additionally, attending regular support groups for Expectant and Birth Mothers can be extremely helpful in connecting with individuals going through a similar situation.
Take your Time
The most important thing to remember is to be patient with yourself. Don’t stress out about being perfect; reflect on what you should’ve or could’ve done differently. Try not to go to or remain in places of shame or guilt. You have a fantastic opportunity to do what is best for you and your child, and remembering to take things one day, hour, or a minute at a time is the most important.
Adoptions From The Heart provides a judgment-free zone for all adoption triad members. It is here to provide options, services, and support and build relationships and friendships with people who understand where you are at while providing those resources and support. Head to our agency website for more information or questions about our support services, or contact our adoption counselors!
